The world has different kinds of people. And each person has a different mentality. But still, nothing in the world is free. Nobody will love or respect you, just because you want them to.
You have to earn all the appreciation you want. And to make people appreciate you, you have to learn to appreciate yourself first.
Consider this. Who decides the way you should be treated by the world? Could it ever be a relative or a friend? No way, right?
Under all circumstances, the answer would be Y-O-U.
No one else has the exact same thinking, desires, sentiments and beliefs as you. Only you know who you are, and what you want from the world. Only you can decide how you want to be treated by the world.
After you have given enough thought on how you want to be treated, you just don't go announcing your opinions and decisions to the others. Because that way, nobody will listen to you. Instead, you have to let your actions do the talking. And how to let your actions show what you really want from the world? Well, it is easy.
Just imagine, a person X comes into your life, who treats you exactly the way you want to be treated. You can use him/her as an example to show to the world what you really want from it. That way, you will never have to give anyone a verbal explanation of how you want to be treated, you can just show him/her as an example whenever you need to.
But the best part is, you don't have to go and search for that person X anywhere. Because that person X, MUST BE YOU! You, yourself have to be that example. Nobody else can show the way you want to be treated by others! You, and only you have to show the world the treatment you deserve, through your actions. And you can only do that by treating yourself-the way you want to be treated by the people around you.
Copyright © Upasana Goyal 2014
Copyright © Upasana Goyal 2014
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